chore: restart component and check component status

[shanshanying]

1. restart component instead of ITS (by add the annotation)
2. check both progress and component status.
   The paramter change is succ only when PROGRESS equals |pods| and component status is running,

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Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 75.00000% with 9 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 59.71%. Comparing base (ac5922d) to head (38af036).
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Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
controllers/parameters/restart_policy.go	53.84%	3 Missing and 3 partials ⚠️
controllers/parameters/policy_util.go	86.95%	2 Missing and 1 partial ⚠️

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/cherry-pick release-1.0

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See: https://github.com/apecloud/kubeblocks/actions/runs/17853703503