revert all of the hacks around "globstar" in packlist

[wraithgar]

Just use node-glob's patterns. This is just a bug factory at this point.

• [BUG] npm pack doesn't match directory prefiex (dist-* doesn't match dist-cjs/index.js) cli#7514
• [BUG/QUESTION] since npm 9.x some files[] globs undermatch npm-packlist#152